Met in 2009 and became roommates in Kogi State University. Everyone in MH Hostel then knew our room. We had a singing group. We cooked together (Okpehe rice was our favorite), sometimes we fought and made up but most importantly we prayed together.
Then we all left school to face life. Tina has always kept in touch that sometimes i remind myself i should step up.
Suddenly this year we became so close than the previous years. Tina did you know you were leaving????. This year alone she has taken me out more than twice and will never let me pick up the bill, i have visited her office severally and she will always say "kai Abo this your mouth never change".
I remember the day in banex when she followed me to fix my phone, she wanted to pay i refused and i later discovered she forced the money into my bag, once i discovered and called her she laughed and i was angry. Tina didn't care if you have, Tina was a selfless giver!!!!!
Then my wedding came and she went all out for me. She personally designed 3 of my headie and shoulder without telling me and refused to collect money. (I made a post publicly thanking her). Tina will call to know howfar with plans all the time, always concerned and will tell me not to hide anything from her.
last time we spoke on phone few days back she called to ask for a number and i noticed she was struggling to talk, i asked what was wrong and she said just stress and i said Tina try and be resting. She laughed!!!
So i woke up to the rude shock that Tina is gone. i have prayed all i can since yesterday but you know what they say about the will of God yea????
LESSONS LEARNT FROM THE DEATH OF TINA.
First never assume its just a minor sickness, Tina had done a live video the day to her death complaining of headache and all and i casually wished her safe recovery and told her to rest. I should have called or reached out more, i would have had opportunity to talk to her outside the video chat. Facebook is killing the quality of time we should spend with people we love. For that i regret!!!!!
Secondly live a good life, this cannot be over emphasized. Much as we want her more here she has done her part and there is no one that can say anything bad about her. Tina was a good person!!!!
Finally let's know death comes to us all and no one will come out of life alive. Live like every minute is your last.
For me i won't question God or regret her death but rather thankful for the mark she left in the sand of time. We will forever remember Tina, Our Igala Attire advocate and our queen!!!!
TINA LIVES FOREVER ❤️❤️❤️
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